Best Sex Toys for Couples
Our Favorite Bedroom Toys for Couples to Enjoy Together
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Sex between two people is a tried-and-true formula. You find somewhere private, you get naked, you go at it. We’ve been doing it for millennia — why switch it up now?
But technology has changed our lives for the better in many ways, and there’s no reason why a little high-tech wizardry can’t do the same in bed. Sex toys may be something people have historically associated with single women (or very lonely guys), but today, they’re no different from any other digital gadget you might own — sleek, smart, and capable of highly impressive things.
They’re also increasingly designed not just for horny singles but for couples play, and there are things on offer for people of all genders (and genitalia). These days, the only thing holding people back from amping up their sex life with a little high-tech action is often the perception that a sex toy is a guy’s competition in bed — rather than his teammate.
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But facing your fears can be the best thing you’ve ever done in this situation, because it can unlock not just toy-assisted pleasure but also the power of communication. When you and your partner (or partners) get comfortable talking about sex — what works and what doesn’t — it becomes a whole different world. When you buy a couples sex toy, you’re buying yourself a ticket to a world of more open, honest and straightforward sex.
But you don’t want to buy just any sex toy — you want one that’s well-made, that’s in your price range, and that’s right for you. That’s why we put together this list.
The Best Sex Toys for Couples
We-Vibe Chorus
The Chorus by We-Vibe, which evolved from their earlier Sync toy, is one of the undisputed best options out there for hetero couples. It’s designed to pleasure both the clit and the G-spot, but the real genius is that unlike most dual-pleasure vagina toys, this one leaves enough space for a penis to penetrate at the same time. And yes, the penis owner will feel the toy’s vibrations while thrusting.
$209 at We-Vibe.com
Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator
This remote-controlled hands-free vibrator is designed to give you maximum control over your partner’s pleasure, and it’s perfect for long-distance or discreet public play. Completely waterproof with a slim, ergonomic design, it includes multiple speed settings and even allows you to sync its rhythms to music, allowing for endless creativity between the sheets, in the shower, and beyond.
$119.00 at Lovense.com
Magic Wand Rechargeable
The Magic Wand was originally created to relieve tension and relax sore muscles, but quickly made its way down south and became recognized as a sex toy in the 1960s. The Magic Wand Rechargeable improves on the classic model, featuring a variety of powerful, penetrating vibrations with multiple patterns and intensities to please men and women alike. Plus, it’s cordless, so you can take the wand just about anywhere to relieve tension … wherever it may be.
$139.95 at GoodVibes.com
Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager
Whether you both have prostates or just one of you does, if you’re not adding prostate pleasure to your sex life, you’re missing out. The Hugo by Lelo is the absolute top-of-the-line pick for P-spot pleasure, with two motors for powerful vibrations, and a remote-control function so your partner can control your pleasure.
$219.99 at Lovehoney.com
We-Vibe Pivot
Speaking of remote controls, the We-Vibe Pivot brings your partner control over the vibrations in a different location — the base of your erection. So while it’s gripping your shaft tightly to keep it extra hard as any cock ring would, it’s also thrumming and buzzing and driving you wild with pleasure like a vibrating one — with the added bonus that your partner’s the one dictating the exact vibratory patterns.
$109 at Lovehoney.com
VeDO Yumi Compact Silicone Finger Vibrator
The YUMI finger vibe is proof that good things come in small packages. Just slip your digits through its one-size-fits-all finger grip and stimulate your partner manually — only this time, you’ve got the added power of vibration. With the YUMI finger vibe, you become the sex toy.
$45.99 at Amazon.com
Dame Eva II
The Eva II from Dame boasts a devilishly clever design that uses a pair of flexible ‘wings’ to hold itself in place between the clit and the vaginal opening, meaning the wearer can get clitoral pleasure while being penetrated. And yes, the penis will feel the vibrations, too. Win-win!
$140 at Dame.com
Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator
A strapless strap-on? How can it be? Well it’s actually quite simple. The Desire Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator utilizes the wearer’s Kegel muscles by inserting the shorter of two shafts, called the “pony.” Then, adjust the pony to find the best fit and angle that works for both partners, and explore the full range of vibration speeds and patterns to benefit from shared arousal.
$99.99 at Lovehoney.com
Womanizer Premium 2
The original Womanizer’s airflow-based clit sucking technology revolutionized the sex toy industry, and the sequel is even better. It’s unobtrusive and silent, but powerful, and because it doesn’t actually touch the clitoris directly, people with sensitive clits can use it to experience multiple orgasms without getting sore. Which makes it an unparalleled masturbation toy, but it’s also small enough to join in on partnered sex without hogging the spotlight.
$199 at Amazon.com
Bender G-Spot Vibrator
The Bender G-Spot Vibrator can be twisted, turned and molded however you want, making it an ideal couples vibrator. It can also be wrapped around the shaft and used as a makeshift cock ring. Get creative with it!
$71 at UnboundBabes.com
Cuffies
Interested in exploring some bondage play? Standard cuffs can be uncomfortable with users fumbling with chains, buckles and locks, but Cuffies are unique in that they’re made from strong body-safe silicone. Basically, they’re resilient, ideal for getting into different positions and can be stretched to fit wrists of all sizes.
$19 at UnboundBabes.com
Wild Flower Enby 2
Flexible, genderless, weird — the Enby 2 is a great option for couples who feel a little outside the gender binary and/or who like to get creative in the sheets. You can fold it, press it, lie against it, rub it on someone, all while it vibrates — without feeling or looking like a traditional sex toy or a set of genitals.
$74.99 at WildFlowerSex.com
Shibari Mini Halo
A massage wand is a must-have in the sex toy tool box. The Shibari Mini Halo, advertised as the best-selling massager on Amazon, is compact and discreet. It comes with 20 vibration patterns and eight speed settings with a bendable neck capable of maneuvering to those hard-to-reach places. It is a flexible tool in every sense of the word, able to stimulate any and all external parts, and even internal parts if you purchase a separate attachment. And for pleasure on the go, the Mini Halo is wireless, rechargeable and small enough to tuck away in a briefcase or bag.
$27.95 at Amazon.com
Lelo Personal Moisturizer
Any number of reasons can mean that P-i-V sex requires a bit more lube than the vagina can produce. It’s always a good idea to have some high-quality lubricant on hand, and if you’re using it with toys, you should opt for a water-based lube, since silicone-based lubes will degrade silicone-based toys (Science!). Smooth and slick and sleek, Lelo’s entry in this category is one of the absolute best available.
$21 at Amazon.com
Kiiroo Onyx+ & Pearl2 Couple Set
If you’re doing the long-distance thing, you might want to invest in Kiiroo’s answer to long-distance sex: the Onyx+ and Pearl2 set. The toys are Bluetooth enabled, and can communicate directly with one another, meaning when one partner thrusts into the Onyx+, the other partner’s Pearl2 vibrates. Yep — you can literally feel each other from half the world away.
$396 at Kiiroo.com
Real Vibes Anal Trainer Kit
This kit is ideal for anal beginners because it includes four plug sizes that allow you to start smaller and then explore plugs of increasing size. These plugs are designed with narrow tips that gradually widen for easy insertion and suction cups at the base for hands-free play. They can help to prepare for anal sex, be used to achieve double penetration or even used in masturbation to stimulate anal nerve endings. However you choose to use them, be sure to pair the Real Vibes Anal Training Kit plugs with plenty of lube.
$15.99 at Amazon.com
Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh!
Discreet yet anything but boring, the Ohmibod Club Vibe 2 is your answer to racy fun in public or private. The lacy panties are designed to hold the Vibe 2 in the lining, while a partner controls the remote from up to 20 feet away. The vibrator measures approximately 2 inches wide and 4 inches long, and has five different speeds so that her pleasure can be increased one notch at a time.
$89 at LoveLifetoys.com
Wicked Aqua Collection
Sex is good, but sex with lube is better. This being the general perception, there are many lubricants to choose from. For a silky, luxurious experience that is paraben-free, opt for the Wicked Aqua Collection. Flavors include: Candy Apple, Mocha Java, Pomegranate, Salted Caramel, Vanilla Bean, and so on.
$15.67 at Amazon.com
Adam & Eve G-Gasm Delight Vibrator
There is a common misconception that vibrators are exclusive to female solo play, but the G-Gasm Delight delivers vibrations of adjustable intensity that can just as easily be used for prostate stimulation and couples play. And unlike the massage wand, the G-Gasm Delight can be used internally without any additional attachments. The G-Gasm Delight boasts a superior design with an ovular tip that lends itself to increased coverage and an inclined neck that maximizes reach.
$24.99 at AdamEve.com
Liberator Wedge & Ramp
The Liberator Wedge & Ramp offers extra height for ease of entry, which makes a man’s penis feel larger as it can penetrate more deeply. The wedge’s design helps hit the G-spot or the prostate for feel-good effective sex. The Liberator Wedge is also great for female masturbation, offering the best angle for more effective use of all toys for solo orgasms. When the fun's over, just remove the cover — it's washable for easy cleanup.
$239 at Amazon.com
Lelo Tiani 3
Ideal for solo sex regardless of your genitalia, the Lelo Tiani’s greatest functions are also appreciated when used as a twosome. The toy is placed within the vagina so that the vibrator rests on the clitoris, completely hugging it. During intercourse, both parties feel the vibrating sensations as the toy lays inside the vagina and shares space with the penis, providing both G-Spot and clitoral stimulation simultaneously.
$182.39 at Lelo.com
Fun Factory Manta
The Manta is sort a mix of a cock ring, a stroker, and a wrench. (Well, the last part being more a question of form than function.) It’s designed both for solo and couples play, and can work to add a little spice to a great blowjob with its 12 sexy settings as well.
$139.99 at Lovehoney.com
JimmyJane Contour M Ceramic Massage Stone
To go along with the Afterglow Massage Oil Candle (or just on its own), the Contour M is a great rubbing stone for couples massage. Straight up, sometimes our partners want us to rub their backs, but we're feeling tired and kind of lazy and don’t want to show it. This stone is the savior. It cuts down the work, while also giving your partner a strong, enjoyable massage (which probably beats your lazy hands, anyway). Plus, the Contour M holds to body temperature, and is ergonomic.
$19.99 at JimmyJane.com
Wildfire Arousing Oil
Wildfire Original's aphrodisiac-infused pleasure oil is chock full of naturally occurring enhancers that will ensure a romantic evening in the bedroom -- whether that means a night of sensual massages or something more intimate. This lavender-scented formula acts as both a personal lubricant and as a massage and body oil -- so feel free to spice it up.
$29.95 at WildfireOil.com
LELO Toy Cleaning Spray
If your bedroom hosts a library of sexual playthings, you should at least make sure they’re clean. Alcohol- and paraben-free, LELO’s cleaning formula is a quality, effective and affordable choice for sex toys of any shape or size.
$10.30 at Lelo.com
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