In the five years since the start of the fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan, many newspapers have published articles about the men who lost their lives in battle. In reading their stories, I am moved by a common theme that runs throughout: Many of the fallen soldiers were fathers who left little children behind. Some war widows have re-married; many children have inherited new father-figures. But their connection to the past, and to the men who dreamt of raising them and guiding them through life, remains altered still, and forevermore.

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In addition to the more than 4000 American soldiers who have died in combat during the five years of fighting in Iraq, a recent Rand Corporation report estimates that an additional 300,000 soldiers have suffered traumatic brain injuries (TBI’s), including brief losses of consciousness, disorientation, impairments in memory and lapses in cognitive and intellectual functioning.

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For the mothers and fathers of cyclone victims in Myanmar and those of earthquake victims in China, grief, and the strength needed to endure human suffering, will not be a linear process. It will more likely resemble a spiral staircase on which are recapitulated themes of shock, disbelief, denial, anger, panic, and the hope for eventual inner solace. And women will grieve differently than men …

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Mother’s Day poses challenges for all parents who have lost a child, be it through wartime battle, disease, accident or suicide. The celebration of love and life that grows through honoring our mothers makes us vulnerable to the pain of any loss, and some memories are not easy to forget.

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When the Associated Press posted an article on April 16 about Tricia Walsh-Smith and her public tirade on YouTube, the world had the chance to see the angry side of a crumbling marriage straight from their PCs. In the video she lashes out against her husband, Broadway theatre executive Philip Smith, in a steady spate of negative and personal details about their failed sex life and marital woes.

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Damien Cave’s article in Saturday’s New York Times presents a disturbing sequel to my earlier post on Dan Barry’s Times article last month, which highlighted 16-year-old Billy Wolfe, a frequently bullied Arkansas teen who was the subject of repeated school violence. In Saturday’s article, Cave reports on the story gaining international attention: the violent beating of a classmate and how it was filmed for the Internet.

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The headlines on the front page of the New York Times for Monday, March 31, tell the story of Eric Hall, a 24-year-old American veteran of the war in Iraq, and about the life he led after his return home from his tour of duty. In his article “Tracking a Marine Lost at Home,” Damien Cave writes about how Mr. Hall disappeared and eventually died in the woods of Southwest Florida after experiencing a “flashback” in which he feared Iraqi insurgents were surrounding him…

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After reading Dan Barry’s New York Times front-page article yesterday entitled “A Boy the Bullies Love To Beat Up, Repeatedly,” I am struck by the realization that the problem of bullying still persists in our schools and with little improvement. Metal detectors and security cameras have indeed attempted to reduce the presence of weapons and crimes in many high schools across the nation, yet the problem of bullying remains viable and insidious nonetheless.

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As David A. Paterson begins his first true day as New York State’s 55th governor (amid revelations of his own marital indiscretions from 1999 through 2002), and as his predecessor, Eliot Spitzer, dismantles what is left of his once stellar career, we are left with the question, “Why?” Why do people who have so much to lose take risks that would bring upon their own downfall?

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Daphne Merkin writes about television’s recent interest in psychotherapy in her New York Times Magazine article on Sunday, January 27. In it, she describes the therapeutic encounter as a “painful drama” in which a professional “trained in the art of paying close attention” listens to someone “trained in the arts of repression and denial.”

Ms. Merkin’s view of the therapeutic journey is highly misguided and sadly myopic.

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