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"And consider this: Albert Einstein's parents were cousins, and he married his cousin, too. FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt were cousins, so were Prince Albert and Queen Victoria and former New York City Mayor Rudolph Giuliani was briefly married to a second cousin."
Although many people are still concerned about the genetic risks cousin marriages supposedly take, a new study by National Society of Genetic Counselors states that the genetic risks are much less than previously thought.
"Dr. Bittles, who is working on an update of the 2002 study, and other researchers argue that laws against marriage between cousins were rooted in myth and moral objections, and that they amounted to genetic discrimination akin to eugenics or forced sterilization. People with severe disorders like Huntington's disease, who have a 50 percent chance of passing it on to their offspring, are not barred from marrying because of the risk of genetic defects, he said, so cousins should not be, either."
Source: Sarah Kershaw. "Shaking Off the Shame." NYTimes.com. 11/25/2009.
Even with the new scientific studies regarding cousin marriages, cousin marriages are often not readily accepted by family members and some churches. Scott P. Richert explains: "Today, second-cousin marriages are allowed, and, under some circumstances, a dispensation can be obtained to allow a first-cousin marriage. The [Catholic] Church still discourages such marriages, however."
If this theory is correct, should teens be prevented from making life changing decisions such as getting married and serving in the military?
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