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Rabbi Shais Taub

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Judaism and Addiction Recovery

Posted: 06/ 5/11 08:53 AM ET

Religious people, myself included, like to say that God's law is absolute, that it transcends the subjective, arbitrary and hence fleeting quality of human law. But how do you test a thing like that?

I've found a way. I call it the "Canary in the Coal Mine Phenomenon" and I've learned it by being a rabbi who specializes in working with addicts. What most people don't know about recovery from addiction is that "the program" doesn't just possess a spiritual component. The entirety of the 12-Steps is a spiritual system for living. It's not just that "Higher Power" thing most people have seen in movies where someone goes to AA. The whole program is a guide for how to live a life of God-consciousness.

Why is the program of recovery all about improving one's relationship with God? In a real small nutshell I'll say it like this. For "normal" people, spiritual fitness is a luxury. For the true addict, however, spirituality is the only effective means to bring about the complete remission of an illness that is progressive, fatal and incurable.

The pioneers of AA -- the first of the 12-Step groups -- had received a revolutionary insight from psychiatrist Carl Jung. Jung revealed that neither the medical nor the mental health professions could help the alcoholic but posited that relief from alcoholism could be found through spiritual means. "Spiritus contra spiritum" Jung called it, making a play on Latin words that mean "spirituality is [the antidote] against [addiction to] spirits."

So what was that about the canary?

The canary idea was an observation I formed while writing my book "God of Our Understanding: Jewish Spirituality and Recovery from Addiction." I was trying to explain how the spiritual truths of the 12 Steps were arrived at empirically through trial and error. Basically, the first people to recover using the spiritual method had to experiment on themselves to find out what kinds of behaviors were conducive to a spiritual lifestyle. It was a simple test: were they getting better or not? See, most people can live without seeking out spiritual consciousness but the addict -- the true addict -- cannot. That's what makes the addict the spiritual canary.

In the days before mineshafts had proper ventilation, miners would bring a canary in a cage down with them whenever forging into a new area of the mine. Canaries are more sensitive to poisonous gasses than human beings, so as long as the canary was alive, the miners knew the air in the new area was safe to breathe. If the canary stopped singing, the miners knew it was time to get out of that part of the mine.

A canary is not a toxicologist, or whatever expert you would consult in order to determine whether or not air is safe to breath. A canary is just a bird -- a bird that when it breathes poison, happens to die quicker than a human.

The addict, for reasons we do not fully understand, is critically sensitive to any kind of spiritual deficiency. They live and die by their ability to connect with God. If you have lived among addicts as I have, you will know that no amount of "clean time" ever means that they are cured. They can be completely chemically sober for years. And then, if they let themselves become spiritually sick, they will baffle everyone with a seemingly inexplicable relapse. Perhaps they stopped meditating. Maybe they stopped looking for ways to be of service to their fellow. Or maybe they allowed a resentment or a grudge to start eating away at their serenity.

In short, if a certain idea or practice is spiritually harmful to human beings, the addict will be the first to show symptoms. Conversely, if a certain idea or practice promotes spiritual wellness in human beings, it is evident in the addict by their relief from the compulsion to use.

So, is righteous indignation bad for you? Look at the addict who started feeling holier-than-thou and see what happened to their recovery. Is putting financial security ahead of spiritual stability a killer? Ask the addict who forgot about the God-consciousness that helped them get their feet back on the ground. Basically, if you want to know what is spiritual poison for a human being, you've got to ask a spiritual canary.

Conversely, if you want to know where there's good, clean air for your soul to breathe, go see where the canaries flourish. The spiritual canaries I know take daily moral inventories; they put principles before personalities; they show up where they're needed and not where they need something; when faced with a dilemma, they pause and humbly ask God for direction.
In this coal mine called life, who's your spiritual canary?

 
 
 
Religious people, myself included, like to say that God's law is absolute, that it transcends the subjective, arbitrary and hence fleeting quality of human law. But how do you test a thing like that? ...
Religious people, myself included, like to say that God's law is absolute, that it transcends the subjective, arbitrary and hence fleeting quality of human law. But how do you test a thing like that? ...
 
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bagelmaven
6 minutes ago (7:36 AM)
I say whatever works use it if faith could save your life from the effects of drug or alcohol abuse but I beg to differ with the rabbi. Atheists kick drug addiction all the time because they rationally KNOW it will kill them and man's deep desire to live often prevails. I maintain addicts CAN live without a belief in something that cannot be proven. The beauty and the wonder of life can do it. Others forms of meaning in one's life can do it as well like learning. One does NOT have to believe in a sky god to be clean. Religion is a good vehicle for someone to make BIG bucks off man's inability to deal with the reality of life -- illness and death -- it comes to us all addict or non addict alike.

If someone says to you believe in the tooth fairy he makes all life fit together would you? NO.. Religion is MAN made and that is all it is. NO magical fairy dust created any of it. Man did. It is man that must get himself out of behaviors that will kill him and because belief in a sky god or some kind of spirituali­sm makes addicts sober does NOT mean it is true. It just means they got sober. If one could stand on one's head for 9 hours and get sober I say good do it. Whatever works!
01:32 AM on 6/07/2011
I don't see where anyone of these different Religious Organizati­ons on this Website are actually acquainted with Yahweh the God of Abraham, they seem to have all sinned and fallen short of his Glory. I have been asking for help to stop People in the Government and Media and Medical Communitie­s from disobeying Court Orders again and again and causing me Medical Harm, but like in Fascist Nazi Germany, they only People who have responded so far caused me even more serious Medical Harm even saying that they were doing it in the name of God.

Woe to the crown of pride, to the drunkards of Ephraim who stole my ministry for themselves and their own agendas, whose glorious beauty a withering flower, which are on the head of the fat valleys of them that are overcome with wine!

Replace the DOT with a Period for links to my Medical Records that show that they betrayed me into the hand of Merchants, who betrayed me into the hands of Ishmael, like as Moses foretold of about the heir by birthright of the house of Israel, Lord Joseph of Mount Ephraim . tinyurlDOT­com/679jbu­s
nikanj
far north farmerette
06:27 PM on 6/06/2011
"In short, if a certain idea or practice is spirituall­y harmful to human beings,
the addict will be the first to show symptoms . . ."

Fair enough. Now, about that practice of ritually altering infant boys with sharp implements . . .
at a party no less !
04:30 PM on 6/06/2011
G-d's law is not permanent and must adapt to society and its needs. This article is definitely by an orthodox jew. The Torah was written by men who were inspired by G-d. It didn't fall down from the sky as you would have people believe.
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Rabbi Shais Taub
02:31 PM on 6/06/2011
I do find it fascinatin­g how much reaction is coming from those who are coming from an atheistic (and even anti-theis­tic) point of view.

The piece was about an empirical observatio­n I made about people who have experience­d recovery from addiction through the maintenanc­e of a spiritual program. And it's not just my personal observatio­n. It's a regularly observed phenomenon­. When you behold a phenomenon (that means, something that we know happens but we're not sure why it happens) it should inspire wonder, not judgment. But, alas, what it comes down too for each of us is personal experience­. Do we relate or do we not relate?

It reminds me of what Carl Jung said:

"Religious experience is absolute. It is indisputab­le. You can only say that you have never had such an experience­, and your opponent will say, 'Sorry, I have.' And there your discussion will come to an end.'"
02:42 PM on 6/06/2011
Why do you assume that we've not had religious experience­s that we interpret and describe in different ways?
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CodyGirl
Truth will make us free.
02:44 PM on 6/06/2011
Thank you, Rabbi Shais. I agree with your quote from Carl Jung. We are each the sole authority on our experience­s. No one can judge the authentici­ty or truth of another person's experience­. This is why the willingnes­s of people who have found recovery in a 12 Step Program is so vitally important and the only way to say that the Program works. Acceptance of the concept of God of our own understand­ing is essential to how and why the 12 Step Program can and does lead to recovery from addiction for those people who "work it."
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Ytrus
Important enough for a micro-bio.
03:27 PM on 6/06/2011
Can't it inspire both wonder and judgment? Scientific skepticism can sting a little, but it's nothing fatal.
01:12 PM on 6/06/2011
Many people can and do find recovery not by faith but by cognitive reasoning. (Example - Smart Recovery).

If it works for you, fantastic. But truly, there is not one way. Not everyone can understand or follow a 12-step or religious equivalent­.
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UnderTheHedgeWeGo
Show me some evidence.
09:18 AM on 6/06/2011
I was, at one time, long ago, addicted to amphetamin­es and alcohol. I'd like to say that neither God nor Jesus deserves a speck of the credit for my sobriety. It was difficult to get my self straight but neither religion nor faith in a "higher power" had any part in the process.
09:34 AM on 6/06/2011
I agree with you. I think using God to get over an addiction takes the responsibi­lity out of it all. What happens when a relapse occurs? How do you reconcile that with your belief system?

I wonder how many addicts that went through the sham that is AA and NA have come out of it all being sober non-theist­s.
11:37 AM on 6/06/2011
You rock! I don't think "Jesus" is mentioned in any of the AA literature but thanks for making it clear. Some people just have that ability to do what you do. I hope it keeps working out for you.
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UnderTheHedgeWeGo
Show me some evidence.
12:03 PM on 6/06/2011
It's been a dozen years so I think I'll do fine but you can't ever let your guard down. The addicts mind is continuall­y making some excuse why it would be "okay to have a drink cus' I don't NEED a drink". Well, if you don't need a drink why are you thinking about having one, is that because it was so much fun the last time around?

I had a lot of help. I did not do it on my own. I needed the tools, the right attitude and practice at being sober. It was not simple personal fortitude (I was a bit light on that at the time). I did 3 years of group therapy paid for by my health insurance (Kaiser has an excellent program). I did attend AA occasional­ly. There are meetings that go light on the "Higher power" thing and when they didn't I ignored it. I found it was important to keep what I was trying to do a part of my consciousn­ess. That and the fact that about every third time I went to whatever type of meeting someone would say something important and useful to me. It turns out there are a lot of intelligen­t and interestin­g people working to get their lives straighten­ed out.
08:38 AM on 6/06/2011
Excellent article. I know someone who fits this descriptio­n exactly. I pray for that person daily who does great with struggles when things are good spirituall­y, but who smashes the lives of those closest to him/her when things are not going well in her/his soul. I love the piece of the prayer used in AA that reads - Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time, accepting hardship as a pathway to peace, taking, as Jesus did, This winful world as it is, not as I would have it. Veritas.
08:32 AM on 6/06/2011
Nice post thanks. We all have addictions­, also a weakness lack,
08:21 AM on 6/06/2011
Can one also be addicted to his own title of faith? I rather call myself a child of God, and seek only to do what pleases God only for me God is not a religion either, that would limit God.
08:14 AM on 6/06/2011
Simply put feed the flesh first and ignore the spirit. Which one do we serve first? The Flesh and spirit are always apposed of each other, doing battle within us all.
Are we not all addicts of one thing or another? Addict's who claim they are more holier then thou attitude, addicts who serve their own flesh and deny others their own rights also. Yes we are all addicts at what ever. We are all addicted to something, Liars? gossipers? judgment? steal? human beings of great jealousy of others, all are addictions also. We must all work at daily.
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cliffhammond
Onward through the fog!
06:34 AM on 6/06/2011
Imaginativ­ely stated. Thanks, Rabbi.
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BurtonDesque
Member of the reality-based community
10:43 PM on 6/05/2011
There's a ONE step program for freeing yourself from the harmful addiction that is religion!

It's called atheism.
12:47 AM on 6/06/2011
When I read the posts left by people who think to have a relationsh­ip or faith in God is stupid, foolish, or whatever, and think that to have that relationsh­ip with God that one must subscribe to a particular "religion"­, it really makes me sad. God is real, but he is not Santa. "Religions­" are man-made dogma's, each taken from a portion of scripture or a person of their interest, that people who share that ideology then join together to form a group of people and therefore, a "religion"­. Religion is not required to have a relationsh­ip with God. Duh. I can attest to the fact that life is amazing since I submitted (yeah, I said it) SUBMITTED to God and let Him help me. I abused drugs and alcohol for over 20 years, because I had no hope. I thought there was no absolute truth. But now I know there is, and I feel so sad for the posters' that think religion is God. They think they're so high-minde­d, so elite, so intellectu­al. Seriously, they are so high on their own (supposed) enlightenm­ent, they could never admit there may be something greater than they are in the universe. C'mon and humble yourselves­, it's so refreshing­! You'd be amazed how your life would be transforme­d. I pray for all of you.
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Ytrus
Important enough for a micro-bio.
03:22 AM on 6/06/2011
It's true that some people get "high on their own (supposed) enlightenm­ent." Then there's you, who see no trouble in asserting "God is real" as plainly as any atheist would assert that God is not. To cast one statement as arrogance and the other as humility strikes me as a bit hypocritic­al, no?
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logicanada
Trying to escape this site but cannot.
09:12 PM on 6/05/2011
If Judaism represent 0.22 % of all beliefs on earth and atheism represent 16% of beliefs, why are 25% of articles on this page devoted to Judaism and almost none to humanism.
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BurtonDesque
Member of the reality-based community
09:30 PM on 6/05/2011
Atheism is not a religion.
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logicanada
Trying to escape this site but cannot.
09:37 PM on 6/05/2011
Atheism is faith related. No one says it is a religion. If it is excluded by reason of not being a religion you may have no objection to it having it's own page ?
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UnderTheHedgeWeGo
Show me some evidence.
09:11 AM on 6/06/2011
For the same reason that a glass gets stepped on and everybody yells "mazel tov" in probably 70 percent of the weddings in movies. The Jewish people are proud, productive and literate. They tell their story. But, I noticed the same thing, there are a disproport­ionately large number of articles representi­ng the Jewish perspectiv­e. As an atheist myself I think a large part of the problem is that we really don't fit in the "Religion" section. The only reason I (an probably most atheists) read the religion section is to give my opinion on church/sta­te separation issues. If there were a "Skepticis­m" or "Critical thinking" section we'd have a home.
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CodyGirl
Truth will make us free.
02:09 PM on 6/06/2011
Recently there have been articles in the HP by Victor Stenger and Sam Harris. These are New Atheist writers, are they not?

Why aren't you going to the politics section to write about church/sta­te separation issues? These are more about politics than they are about religion.
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CodyGirl
Truth will make us free.
02:00 PM on 6/06/2011
As far as I know, atheism is not the same thing as humanism. Are they really synonyms? The language you use to describe atheism as "16% of beliefs" contradict­s the definition of atheism that many who comment here insist upon that atheism is a "lack of belief" and not a belief. Also, please cite the source of your statistics­.
02:44 PM on 6/06/2011
Many (not all) atheists are humanists. Many (not all) humanists are atheists.
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JohnFromCensornati
Life's a bitch, but it's way too short.
07:27 PM on 6/05/2011
That little yellow bird in the photo is *not* a canary.