During the debate in Maryland's House, I joined same-sex marriage supporters outside of the chambers who were anxiously awaiting the vote. I met two moms and their 4-year-old son Will. After standing for hours, Will was tired and seemed a bit uninterested. I could only imagine how hard it would be to understand the complex discussions as a 4-year-old.
But the next day I saw a photo of Will and his family taken right after the House voted in support of marriage equality. His little face was lit up with joy, and he was cheering as his moms hugged him with the love that only a mother can provide. Will may not have understood the debates, but his smile after the vote proved one very important thing: even a 4-year-old knows the value of human dignity.
Yesterday was a day for Maryland's children. It was a day for human dignity. After years of hard work, we signed a bill into law that protects individual civil marriage rights and religious freedom equally. Yesterday, we came together as One Maryland and showed that there is more that unites us than divides us.
Our efforts were in essence about the dignity of every child's home. All of us, wherever we happen to stand on the marriage equality issue, can agree that all our children deserve the opportunity to live in a loving, caring, committed, and stable home, protected equally under the law.
Religious freedom was the very reason for our state's founding. And at the heart of religious freedom is respect for the freedom of individual conscience.
We are a people of many different religions and many different faiths. The only way forward in a pluralistic society of diverse faiths such as ours is to have laws that protect and respect the freedom of all, equally.
That's why we joined together -- as clergy and faith-based leaders, as community activists and civil rights leaders, as volunteers, as legislators, and as citizens -- and passed a bill that provides equal protection under the law for every individual, and the free exercise of religion without government interference.
The common thread running through our efforts together in Maryland is the thread of human dignity: the dignity of work, the dignity of faith, the dignity of family, the dignity of every individual, the dignity of a free people who, at the end of the day, all want the same thing for our children.
We are One Maryland.
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This comment has not yet been postedThose who seek to enter into an agreement that would work better in modern society should stay away.
One problem, obviously, is the persistent fairy-tale of religion & what some imaginary cloud-daddy supposedly said about who we should have sex with.
Well, its time to evolve past that archaic nonsense and realize it was just some ancient homophobe in a position of power, probably trying to cover up his own gayness by attacking the gay population. (sound familiar?) Not some omnipotent being that peers in on the bedroom activities of 7 billion people with a check-list.
We have such a long way to go as a species before our intellect and compassion surpasses our penchant for violence and idol worship. If the disease of religion cant be cured we have less and less hope of survival, and a bigger and bigger chance of all dying in a self-fulfilling "prophecy" of nuclear war. For a religion that is supposed to be tolerant, there doesnt seem to be many followers that actually tolerate.
So before the righteous righties complain about the harmful effects of someone else`s lifestyle (that never even gets near them) maybe they should look at the harm their own war-mongering, misogynistic, immigrant-hating beliefs cause.