As much as you miss home, the home you miss doesn’t exist. If it did, you’d still be there, probably.
Dane Wisher, educator, in an article in the Billfold titled “The Cost of Things in Qatar.”
In this reflective essay, Wisher, an American teacher, turns a critical eye on himself and his colleagues, highlighting that the costs of moving to Qatar are not just monetary. While sacrifices have been made, accepting the differences is important, he argues, criticizing the insular attitude espoused by many expats who move to Qatar:
Western expats can wake up, eat, go to work, go to the gym, do some shopping, grab dinner, have a drink, go home, watch television, Skype, and go to bed without ever really interacting with people who aren’t more or less like them…
The consequences of such a routine - which Wisher himself said he doesn’t adhere to - are far-reaching:
The unfortunate side effect of this is that expats tend to forget their humble situations. Between the jobs offering people unprecedented amounts of money and responsibility, the expensive cocktail hours, the fancy brunches, the beachfront apartments, and the brigades of deferential staff everywhere, expats often prove true the adage that there is no snob like the newly rich.
And maybe some of the arrogance comes from the fear of what will happen to us when we go back home.
Read the full piece, which includes Wisher’s guilty thoughts on Mega Mart, the downtrodden labor class and Qatar’s extreme wealth, here.
Thoughts?
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