Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: Is monogamy just a bad fairy tale?

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After wife’s affair, husband has concluded that we can love more than one person at a time.

Carolyn Hax: Youngest children suffer from sliding scale of enthusiasm

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Instead of comparing milestones, use the drop-off in familial attention to cook up your own brand of celebration.

Hax Philes: Open Post (Jan. 31)

What’s on your mind today?

Carolyn Hax: Setting the record straight may achieve little

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Reader wants ex-friend to know she didn’t spill beans about pregnancy. But she wonders if this is a good idea.

Carolyn Hax: Pangs of jealousy over a friend’s pregnancy

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A woman who is worried about her own efforts to conceive feels unready for her pregnant friend’s visit.

Advice Columnists

  

Hints From Heloise: Tale of the tape

As any professional painter will tell you, it’s all about the prep.

Hints From Heloise: Kids in the kitchen

Tips for tot safety in the kitchen.

Hints From Heloise: Mayo chews up gum

Chewing gum stuck in hair? Try mayo, peanut butter or mineral oil.

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Miss Manners: Office ladies’ room doesn’t need a monitor

The amount of soap someone does or does not use in the ladies’ room is not the Gentle Reader’s concern.

Miss Manners: Apologize for remark with judicious editing

The Gentle Reader apologized to a friend for a remark she didn’t remember. Should she be reminded?

Miss Manners: No-gifts policy avoids awkward situations

Her husband’s employee gave him a baby gift, moments before he had to let him go.

Miss Manners: Offer to cook and avoid the word ‘diet’

They’re fit and active and prefer different foods than her boyfriend’s bacon-eating parents. What to do?

Miss Manners: Beau never lets calls through to voicemail

He insists on answering — even if it’s to say he can’t talk at the moment.

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Ask Amy: Family trips financed for some, not others

Successful sister understands but chafes at the unfairness of paying for trips when her brothers do not.

Ask Amy: Marriage push won’t end with happy-ever-after

She’s 22 and wants to be married before they have kids. He wants kids first. Amy points out the danger here.

Ask Amy: Sorority sisters not real friends

She’s in her late 20s, and finds her sorority sisters have grown distant. Not one even attended her wedding.

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Animal Doctor: Is sour cream a safe doggy treat?

Dog’s day is topped off with sour cream; peppermint oil as a cure for carsick canines; healthy teeth matter.

Animal Doctor: Do goldfish have feelings?

The complex lives of fish; protecting blue-eyed dogs from UV damage; the dangers of pesticides and herbicides.

Training a young dog to be an easy rider

Pomeranian becomes sick with anxiety inside a car; cat prefers the living room carpet to a litter box..

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@Work Advice

@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

Is he shy, or is he staring?

Does “finicky” co-worker have it in for him, or does he need to work on his manner and communication?

Family

Family Almanac

3-year-old seems physically weak. How to help?

This 3-year-old seems weak and not interested in physical activity. How can her parents help?

Hadley Hooper for the Washignton Post

Pre-K or kindergarten for September’s child?

Nothing’s written in stone: Every child is different and every mother can change her mind if things go wrong.

Family Almanac for 01/09 by Hadley Hooper for the Washington Post

Unruly teen, frustrated mom

She’s an unruly 14 year old. Her parents need to relax a little.

Momspeak

Note to parents: It doesn’t get easier, ever

MOMSPEAK | In hoping the next stage of parenthood will be better, parents can miss the point of childhood.

When cheating on homework is okay

Harvard survey finds 42 percent of kids cheated on homework. What’s the big deal?

New school year’s resolution: Let teachers teach

OXON HILL, MD, AUGUST 16, 2013: Quiana Reedus, 35, takes a moment to read with four-year-old Damarco Lathern who visited Barnaby Manor Elementary School with his parents before the new school year begins. Reedus, who has been a public school teacher for 12 years, prepared her new class room in which she will teach pre-K children from now on full days. Restoring full day pre-K to eight schools in the count is part of Prince George's County Executive's Rushern L. Baker's plan to turn around the county schools in order to raise test scores, increase graduation rates and reduce truancy in six neighborhoods that have been plagued with social ills. (Photo by Astrid Riecken For The Washington Post)

This year, resolve to be a less meddlesome parent.

Date Lab

Date Labbers Linda and David on Jan 2, 2014

They both like games and kids and the flying trapeze

Date Lab: They share a passion for board games and faith and kids. Sounds promising.

They both like Manhattans. Will they find love in D.C.?

Date Lab: One guy is a politician, the other is in the Air Force. A power couple in the making?

Date Labbers Mark and Liz at Floriana on Dec. 3, 2013

They both like Clintons — and each other

Our daters give one another high marks for looks, likes and laughs.

He’s from Oklahoma, she’s not. Dealbreaker?

The both love dogs and Christmas. Is that enough in common for a good date?

They chose a very un-D.C. way to get to know each other

Their date led to a guessing game.

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