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Carolyn Hax

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Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and tackles your problems.

  • Oct 16, 2015

Separate sleeping areas aren’t as uncommon as thought and can prove beneficial to secure needed rest.

  • Oct 14, 2015

An older couple must resolve her concerns about funding kids’ travel costs vs. his about family bonds.

  • Oct 13, 2015

A woman who’s divorced and dating must gracefully cope with seeing her ex in places they used to frequent.

  • Oct 12, 2015

Figure out what each of you best tolerates in housekeeping and share the load. There’s no other choice.

  • Oct 11, 2015

She has a college degree and made comments about losing herself. But she’s not moving to change things.

  • Oct 10, 2015

Anything’s possible, but it would behoove you to take precautions before meeting that special someone.

  • Oct 9, 2015

There’s no intimate future for a couple until the wife recognizes, admits to and renounces her tactics.

  • Oct 8, 2015

A full discussion is needed to examine the layers of complexity tied to care.

  • Oct 7, 2015

A woman’s boyfriend is taking a bossy approach to persuade her to form a closer bond with her parents.

  • Oct 6, 2015
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Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997, after five years as a copy editor and news editor in Style and none as a therapist. The column includes cartoons by “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis — Carolyn's ex-husband — and appears in over 200 newspapers.

Besides the daily column, Carolyn has a weekly live online discussion (noon Fridays), the Hax Philes forum and a Facebook page. She also has a policy of saying yes when NPR calls but avoids TV like something forgotten in the back of the fridge; the feeling appears to be mutual.

Carolyn lives in Massachusetts with her husband, three boys and medium brown dog, Billy, but sees D.C. as "home."  

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